Love-Realization: The Way for Couples to Solve Relationship Problems

The human mind loves to create stories. It creates these stories to entertain itself. There is nothing inherently wrong with this for as long as these stories have a positive impact. However, when the mind creates stories that cause anguish or arguments between two or more parties - whether these parties are friends, couples or even nations - it means the mind is disconnected from the truth of its own beingness. When this happens it is time to become still. Stillness allows for contemplation. Contemplation allows us to rediscover our foundation. Love is the foundation; this foundation of every relation, whether on the atomic level or on the somewhat larger scale we call man or woman... the foundation is always Love. Thus always come back to being Love... for anything else is just a story created by the mind disconnected from the truth that underwrites the mind's own existency, its own beingness.  You see, without Love there would be no mind. It is a simple cause and effect relationship. The mind simply needs to stay aware it itself is a matter of Love, or, the result of Love.  The realization of being Love, aka love-realization, is thus the single-most-important strategy to solve most relationship problems in this world. The advice is refreshingly simple: always return to Love... always return to Love... for Love is the ground of all being; anything else is just a story; a fabrication of the mind disconnected from the heart of its own being.
~ Wald