God desires Love. There, you have it. What it means is that the desire or the need to love and be loved results in it itself existing as existence. Yes, God is existence alright. God self-exists as men and women. In other words: we, meaning men and women, are the embodiment of God-consciousness itself. God desires us to love each other for verily, we are God itself. It is this why it is correctly stated that 'God is One'. We are our own purpose made manifest. God gave birth to itself, its physical self, as the twofoldness that is men and women. The answer to the question to 'why' is to escape loneliness. In other words; we have created ourselves in order to love and be loved. The prime motivation thus being the shelter that companionship brings. The question as to 'what do women really want' or 'what do men really want' is thus an abstraction caused by the non-recognition of Self/God, or, the ignorance of understanding what God/Self really is and desires. For verily, men and women are God experiencing itself through twofoldness for the sole purpose to physically feel love itself. If both men and women can meet each other in this God-realization, which is essentially Self-Realization, they will live in alignment with their very own beingness which is oneness or the true state of God. See each other as your self in the realization that there is only one self that seeks to love and be loved for this truly is God. It is only so that God's family can thrive. In conclusion: Love, Love, Love Sweethearts; it is all that matters.
~ Wald